A fishy reputation

I have been to Kenya three times, totaling nearly twelve months from 2003-2008. This blog is filled with a few of my thoughts, stories and pictures from my second and third trips (January-March 2006 and May-August 2008), mainly around Kitale and Mt. Elgon in the Rift Valley Province.
On Sunday I went to four churches. It was a long and exhausting day, because I had to stand up and talk at each of them. Usually I just said my name, where I was from, what I was doing in Kenya, and said I brought greetings from my church in Canada. Then they would clap (receive the greetings), then clap again (send greetings back to Canada). SO warm and welcoming... BUT, I don't love talking in front of big groups when they expect me to say something profound, so it was mildly stressful. Wherever I go people expect me to say something. Whether it's a shamba, a church, or someone's home. Visitors bring blessings to a place... and are believed to have worthwhile things to hear. The best part of Sunday was hanging out with the kids, teaching them a song from home, and having them teach me a new song. They thought it was pretty hilarious watching me trying to follow along to actions of a song that I totally didn't understand the words to. The favourite activity of the kids was having their photo taken and looking at it in the digital monitor. My battery drained pretty fast :)
The last church I was at was the annual regional meeting for the 'Africa Israel Ninevah Church'. It looked mildly cultic as all the women wore long white dresses and headcoverings (looked like nuns of old fashioned nurses?) and the men wore muslim-style kanzus (long white shirts) and caps, but the theology seems pretty sound. The music was provided by drums (below) and extremely sonorous metal rings hit with another metal thing. At a smaller church earlier in the day the sound was so piercing it made me want to jump out the window next to me (ground level- don't worry). I could only imagine my mom and her pre-disposition to getting headaches- she would have had a migraine all day from that service! The funny thing was, when I looked around at all the people I seemed to be the only one affected by it... Since I was a guest, I sat up front each time. No dozing!!! No matter how incomprehensible the language is!!! (I do get the gist of what is going on... my kiswahili is bumbling along)
The people in this small community were super friendly. Everyone wanted to greet me... all the kids hung around, though few were brave enough to approach until I waved them over.
Trees flower so magnificently here. I'm in paradise...
The Kisumu museum was a motley assortment of cultural artifacts and a pretty cool recreation of a typical Luo homestead... 1st wife's house, 2nd wife's house, 3rd wife's house... 1st sons house, husband's house... everyone gets their own. Refridgeration= storing in large clay vessels; cupboard= basket suspended form the ceiling. the most impressive thing there was this taxidermy masterpiece:
I was so impressed by this park in Kisumu. It could have been in any city in Canada, it was so clean, orderly, and well kept. People have told me that the town of Kisumu is so beautiful (it reminds me of Victoria BC) because the main tribe there is Luo, a people who are known to be fairly prideful and really love the BEST things money can buy (so they can show them off...) :)
Last weekend I went to Kisumu, Kenya's 2nd largest city, on the shores of Lake Victoria. I went with two students from ICM. Aggrey is a pastor in charge of overseeing several churches in his area ('bishop') and is a married father of three girls- two are his own and one is adopted from one of his wife's reletives who died. Salome is in charge of the women's ministry in her province. She is married and has six children, my age and younger, though none were at home while we were staying there. I met several of her friends, and 100+ kids (literally) from her rural neighbourhood. Out of 12 women I met, all but one had 4 or more kids- usually more like 6-9. One had 9 of her own plus 6 adopted. About 1/3 of the women said they had adopted kids- usually from extended family. The area around Lake Victoria is the hardest hit with the AIDS/HIV pandemic.
I learned a few things here. First- it's not really all that normal for a husband and wife to live in the same place all year round. The fact that Salome and her husband have always lived in the same house is a bit unusual- lucky I'd say. It's more usual for the husband to be away working somewhere in some city or ??? and have his wife/ wives at home taking care of the kids and the shamba.
Second- I always wondered how parents could send their kids- as young as 10- away to boarding school. It is totally the custom to do that here- I just couldn't see why it would be a good idea for everyone to send their kids away for a good part of their growing up years. As we drove in the pre-dawn hours towards our bus early Monday morning I got my answer. There were dozens of students in uniforms walking on the roads... at 5am... towards school. School opens at 7:30 but these students are going there early to take advantage of the electricity to study by. At home the rooms are small, dimly lit (by lanterns if paraffin can be afforded), and busy with the rest of the big family. At least at boarding school students can get some studying/ learning done. Also, they don't need to walk so far- spending up to 2 hours each direction in commuting time!
I've finally figured out how to put up photos! I'll try again tomorrow, then I'll be off to far-flung places for a while.
Some farmers and assorted children following our entourage of agro-forestry folks visiting small-scale nurseries at shambas. They sang at each place to welcome us! We felt so honourred... (and I guess so did they!)
Homemade crocheted sofa covers everywhere! Kenyan style!
Some people joke with me here and say if I am not careful I will become a Red African. Now they don’t mean some relative of the Red Indian, as they call the first nations people of North America, but rather a person living in Africa with red skin from too much sun exposure. So, I am dutifully putting on SPF 30 a couple times a day when I am in the heat of the sun, which has been often lately. I missed a spot on the back of my arm today so noticed I am becoming a patchy Red African.
Yesterday I went to the house/ apartment of a woman I just know as 'Mama Dan'. She has a 7 year old and a 5 year old, and is in charge of the Sunday School program at the church, so I thought that she was older than I was... but she's actually just 22. Wow! Their house is SO basic... I haven't seen anything like it. Two rooms- one with two couches and a large wardrobe and the other with two small cook stoves and a bed with a falling apart mattress and tattered sheets. No running water so there are no sinks for washing things and of course no toilet- they have a personal outhouse (=hole in a cement floor in a wooden stall) at the end of the row of units. I don't know where she gets water from- I think it is a few blocks away. There was also no electricity, so again the only light was through the open front door and one tiny window. The walls are cement and covered in large chunky holes from the nails placed in and removed by previous tenants. They really have almost nothing but she just invited me and the visiting pastor over for lunch so warmly. They pay 1200Ksh/ month for the meagre accomodations- <$25CDN. I can imagine it must be a burden to get even that much- plus food and school fees. Her kids are hilarious- the little girl never stopped moving the whole time- talking, singing, dancing, running- she balanced out her older brother who was more quiet and watchful.
Saturday morning I went to my friend Juliet's house (I know her from the agroforestry project)- her husband is a lecturer at Moi university in Eldoret. I chatted with him about agriculture stuff (he is a crop physiologist) and also about ex-pats working for NGO's. He seemed to think that it would be very easy for me to get work here with my background if I just tried. Interesting. It's not as tempting now as it once was though, don't worry… J Juliet and her husband have one son (she said they are acting like mzungus by having only one child) and a really nice new ‘big’ house. They also have a brickyard for a backyard- they are trying to build an underground cellar in the pit that was created in their yard when all the bricks were made for their house.
Another house I went to this week was owned by a couple named Kibii and Esther. They are some of my favourite people here- we connected in some unexplained way right away. Kibii is doing his PhD at the same time as being in some high administrative position at ICM. Esther had been sick in bed with some unexplained illness for two years, but was recently healed, and is now a very vibrant leader of Christian women’s ministries in the area. They both stand quite tall and regal- they are of the Kalenjin tribe- a common one in this area- a people known to the rest of the world as world class runners (80% of Kenyan runners are from this small tribe). Their house is the largest one I have seen- also tastefully decorated. They had a huge living room and kitchen- even by North American standards- which serves well as a meeting place for people- I can tell they are used to having lots of people over a lot of the time! Their own children are all grown up and out of the house but they have four young people living with them- one boy is a high school student, and the other three girls are working in some way- with no place to go. They all call Esther and Kibii mom and dad, just as the Kibiis call them their children!. These are some very generous people.
Ahhh.... my throat hurts soooo much... or as they would say here, it hurts 'toooo much'. I have been visiting all day with people and talking a lot. Hmmm… I’m tired now and am starting to think in kiswahili… this is good for me, but I’ll try to stick to English as much as possible for all of you J Actually, in the last seven days I have eaten at someone’s house or had my meal bought for me every lunch and supper except three. People here are SO receptive to visitors- unlike anything I have experienced before. If you are considered a visitor, people treat you amazingly well and won’t let you pay for anything… which is really humbling and makes me feel quite bad as they are in much tougher economic situations than I. But, this is the culture. They seem to feel responsible for providing for you however they can. I try to bring presents for people as I visit them. As a result, my supply has suffered a large dent- if I keep up at this rate I’ll be completely out in two weeks.
This week I have been spending every day at the Swedish- funded 'VI agroforestry Institute'. Their goal is to establish a green belt around Lake Victoria, by having small scale farmers plant indigenous tree species on their homesteads (shambas). They have a large (5 acre) demonstration farm, a good little museum, a seed collection unit, and offices for extension officers, training staff, and monitoring staff. My goal is to learn as much as possible about agroforestry in the two weeks I have to spend with the project. This week I spent mainly on site, but next week I will spend mainly in the field. I did go in the field twice this week... including this monring...
January 12- Karen (just outside of Nairobi- a swankier ‘suburb’ named for Karen Blixen, of ‘Out of Africa’ fame) to Kitale (8 hours away, in Western Kenya)
written Wednesday, January 11 (then lost for a while, and refound...)